There are different stages of recognition and understanding of addictions. People can go through these stages in a positive way even without intervention, as can relapse and perpetuation of the cycle itself.
Denial, often a process of intervention, can sometimes influence the patient’s family and friends into enabling behaviour. Addiction sufferers can sometimes struggle to identify their condition, and will instead persuade their loved ones to make excuses, cover for them, or forgo the appropriate care, so they can continue to use substances or engage in certain behaviour. Recovery is all about acceptance. Struggling with addiction can be an isolating experience, but it’s important to remember you and your loved ones are not alone. Coming to terms with and understanding a substance use disorder can open up the doors to recovery.
Friends and family play a central role in both intervening with and preventing a loved one’s substance use and misuse by offering a level of protection that is invaluable. Facing addiction can be frightening — but family involvement helps to encourage a sense of resilience on the road to recovery. Having the strong social support and guidance of a positive role model can make all the difference in preventing a relapse.
A relationship based on honesty will best convince your loved one to seek help for their problem — so if you do notice any warning signs, make sure you address your concerns with an open conversation. Persistently responding with positive empathy can be an exhausting process for family members. Remember you are not alone. If you are concerned your loved one may be struggling with an substance use disorder, reach out to Currumbin Clinic. Our highly trained and compassionate staff are here to assist you every step of the way.